ok here’s the story. i was dating a guy for about a year and i started to feel like this distance and boredom within it. nothing to do with my feelings but it felt stagnant for both of us. originally he told me he would wanna work it on together (meaning still dating) if i did and i told him we should think about it. a couple days later he called me and he had me talk first and i told him i think it would be good to be apart for a little and work on ourselves because i felt it was right and he completely agreed or so he said. the next weekend he was calling me at night trying to see me and yk.. and i didn’t allow it. we ended up staying in contact and i went over to see him. i talked to him and told him i thought that we could definitely work on things together (meaning be with each other) and i THOUGHT he agreed. but the next day he told me that we shouldn’t have a relationship of any sort if we’re trying to work on things which isn’t really what i meant. i wanted to do like a talking stage with him as we’re reworking on it. but he said no and so i left it at that. i saw him at a party about a week ago, he snapped me the next morning about a part of my costume i responded a couple times then left him on read. we’ve now been no contact for a week and i’m wondering if i should keep silent or i should speak my feelings. usually during no contact if someone’s going to break it it should be the person who cut it off. but idk with this situation who should be the one pls help