For many years my husband has been bad at communication. Especially now that we are narried,with a toddler and one on the way. Eveytime he goes with his family he doesn't keep me updated. He's gone when I've been sick or with a newborn. And tonight when he told me last minute while I just got back from the er yesterday. Mt medication isn't doing too well. So I'm not well and he goes to go help his sister with something an hour away with his Dad. Ok I understand. It sucks that I'm not feeling f well but ok. So he takes a long time and I get he's busy but the reason why I get so paranoid is because he's gotten in a bad car accident and also all I want is a hey I'm on my way back. Especially because I expressed how it makes me feel. I don't need to talk to him all day. So I font bother him. Then it gets later and later. Nothing. Then his phone rings twice and I'm worried. So I wait and call his dad. He says they're 4 minutes away and that his son is driving so he couldn't get to the phone. More like he ignored my phone call. Oh but when I'm gone grocery shopping for an hour he blows my phone up. Even if I commucate with him the whole time. I just don't like it and I'm in pain right now and he's don't it so many times. He just doesn't care. A simple text is all... I guess I should just not say anything and let it go because obviously it isn't important to him.which ok but it still makes me sad.