Has anyone waited until 20 weeks to tell family your pregnant?

So I found out I’m pregnant about 4 weeks told my husband of course but don’t want to tell my family for a while(very judgmental) thinking about waiting until I’m in the clear 20weeks+ but i do want to have a gender reveal and a baby shower…

Has anyone waited this long & how’d your family take it? Did you still have a baby shower or gender reveal?

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