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My husband wants to wait until birth to find out the gender but I REALLY want to know. Is it bad to find out the gender with a blood test and not tell him that I know? I get really sick during pregnancy and I feel like knowing the gender will help me a little.

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I would just tell him. but I think it’d be SUPER hard to keep it from slipping the whole time. that’s a really special moment

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I’d find out myself if my partner didn’t want too

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Yes, I think so. Also, there is no way you won't end up telling him through an entire pregnancy.
Try to compromise somehow. Maybe wait until 20 week scan? Maybe know this one but not the next if you're planning more kids?

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I wanted to wait, husband wanted to know..I knew that if he knew and I didn’t it would be extremely hard for me and I would eventually want to know too…so we found out together. I don’t regret it I think it has helped me bond even more..I don’t think I’ll ever wait until birth to find out but that’s my personal preference

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I talked to a guy the other day whose wife knew but he didn't. Would be weird to not tell him though that you knew though.

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Go for it it's his right to not know and yours to know

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