Kids of divorced parents how did your parents tell you they were separating? I have an 11yo girl a 2yo boy and a 4mo old boy. I’m really just concerned about my girl and how to break the news to her. Long story short my husband has been abusing drugs and it has gotten out of hand. I don’t want to bash her father but I just really don’t know what to say and how to say it. I’ve tried everything but it this point I’d be just as negligent if I stay. I’ve applied for an apartment and am moving out on the 1st at the latest. Advice please?