My husband had a spiritual epiphany and decided that he wasn't going to pull out anymore. Last time we has sex and he said he was going to cum, I told him to pull out. He said no (because sex should always be open to the possibility of conception even though this was a new revelation for him). He did not pull out and the next 10 days were extremely stressful before starting my period. So my question ... is that a form of rape sine the act of finishing inside me was not consensual, or is not because he's my husband?