My soon to be husband has a “friend” from high school. She was living in a different state with her husband. Back a year ago When our baby was born they were texting and he hide it from me. It caused me emotional stress because he lied and hide it from me that they were texting because he did not wanted to show me messages and deleted them saying i was gonna get mad or jealous. He said he was “protecting me” so long story short. I found out HE (my bf) texted her this weekend asking how she was and turns out she got divorced and moved just a few hrs from where we live. My bf told her that she was a “gem and beautiful and deserved better” with like 4 red hearts emojis and to which she replied “thank you I needed to hear that”. After he said “I neeeeed to see you when youre in town” And of course she said she was gonna be in town for thanksgiving and he told her to let him know when so they could hang out. Now i dont know if to hangout with me and our baby or just them two. But HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO FEEL ABOUT THIS?? How am I supposed to go see this girl who caused me emotional stress?!?? He obviously dont know I read those messages but I just dont know how to feel about his text messages to her