Craving sex but the cramps are real!!!

PBJ

Hi everyone. I’m nearing 4 weeks pregnant and have been craving my man sooooo badly!!! I’m afraid to have any sex or any nipple stimulation because whenever we begin to kiss and get intimate I get an odd dull severe cramp like pain in my lower stomach, as soon as we stop… the pain stops. I’m worried the pain I’m feeling will cause embryo to dislodge and I’ll lose the baby ☹️. The main reason I feel like this so bc last month (October) I experienced a chemical pregnancy. I tested faint positive at 10DPO and then continued to be sexually active and felt the same cramping pain but just thought it was normal or period like pain. I’ve read on some forums that some breastfeeding moms are encouraged by their doctor to stop breast feeding in early pregnancy due to nipple stimulation causing uterine contractions and risking miscarriage. I miss my connection with my man and crave him terribly! It is beginning to affect us negatively. I know what I want to do but I don’t know if that’s what’s best for the baby! Has anyone else experienced similar discomfort during nipple stimulation/sex?