My partner has been following girls on Instagram lately and it’s been making me wonder if he really is “all about me” like he says he is. He only follows guys and girls from highschool or middle school. No female models or anything like that. Just girls from highschool. He graduated in 3 years ago so I just wonder if they’re on his mind or maybe I’m just over reacting? I’m not trying to be toxic, but sometimes I just wonder if I’m in the wrong for thinking it’s wierd or wrong for my partner to follow girls on Instagram or Snapchat.

He hasn’t ever shown me cheating or unloyalty in our relationship. He really shows a lot of respect and love for me… I just feel funny with a guy following girls on Instagram who has a gf …. I don’t follow men on Instagram but that’s bc I just don’t feel obligated to It’s not something I think about.

Is this toxic of me? I just feel funny about it, I never make an issue about it