Is it weird or wrong if I don’t want to go to my boyfriends family’s house on thanksgiving ?

We have been together for over a year. We live together. My bfs family lives about 2 hours away and mine lives only 10 minutes away.

My birthday is also on thanksgiving this year and my family is gonna celebrate and have my bday cake as well that day.

Both of our families are eating dinner at almost there same time. About an hour apart.

So I asked my bf if I could just go to my families house and he could just go to his.

And he’s a bit upset with me. And asked if I don’t like his family. He said his family asks why they never see me. And it’s because I do things when he goes to see them. And they live 2 hours away.

Is it wrong if I don’t want to go ???