Hey friends.. just want to know your thoughts and opinions without y’all bashing me. I’m 25 and my husband is 31 we’ve been married for a year and just had our baby in March. We have not been in the best financial position even before the baby, well he hasn’t. Which caused me to ask my parents for money every month for food and things i come up short on. I feel bad for asking but my income can’t cover everything and my husband has been lying about a job he never had since June. But now he’s finally employed and we make minimum wages, $18 and $20.25 we don’t have degrees.im frustrated because my husband doesn’t make enough and I shouldn’t have married him. I was stupid to marry for love and i don’t even love his broke ass anymore. My parents shouldn’t have to give me money. How do I expect them to respect my marriage? Lately when he gets paid he just hands me his whole check but that’s not enough for me. I don’t mean to sound shallow but he can kiss my ass. He thinks because he contributes to the household with cooking, cleaning and gives me a break from our baby I should be happy because he’s doing “something” like no dude $18 aint shit for a man. My parents don’t look at me sideways but it’s not a good feeling. Ever been in this position? So many women get princess treatment and here i am in struggle love. I want dates, flights, gifts etc. I’m sick of it and I told him if don’t figure out a way to make more money I’m leaving his ass. And I’m in debt!! Trying to get myself out he needs to do more