Am I Immature?

My partner has a lot of issues to work on and he still goes back to his old ways. Example he don’t show a lot of love or speaks to me rudely then say sorry an hour later. He calls me childish for not moving on from the situation where I was laying down he was on bus phone for the entire time and I expressed to him I wanted hugs etc he said he didn’t want to lie down so I said okay but make no effort at all then whatever and then he still sits there. I’m immature for now not speaking to him as it happens all the time and he says I should move on as it’s a one time thing 🙄