So I guess this is gonna be more of a vent than anything else but I'm really annoyed.

And I apologise for the long post, I jsut had to come back and put this in as I just saw how much I wrote 🙈🙈

So I posted recently about how I found out Im pregnant with the implant.

Me and my partner havent been together very long (around 8 months), we don't live with each other (yet) and I have a 12 year old and 14 year old already.

Originally I was worried about telling my kids but they're buzzing they're really happy for.me.and looking forward to having a baby sibling .which was such a relief I was so worried.

I told my sister and she's really happy for us she's actually due her second baby 5 months before mine will be due so is excited to have play dates and stuff 🥰

However when I told my dad and step mum they have been so negative. My dad tends to just sit quietly whilst my step.mum talks and she has just listed all the things that are bad.

I understand her worries as I was worried about it all too but me and my partner have discussed everything at length and made the decision to keep the baby.

But my step mum just keeps being so negative, I thought they would be a little worried but be happy for me but she has made a point of telling me she isn't and I'm making a huge mistake.

They're not happy they haven't met my partner yet and I'm having a baby with him but i keep telling them that he works nights in the week and they will need to keep him on a weekend but they can't do weekends

They want to come round Thursday night to discuss more and see my kids but I don't think there is anything to discuss?

The decision is made, we're keeping the baby, is there more that needs to be discussed?

Ive always had a love hate relationship with my step mum, but I adore my dad and I don't want this to ruin our relationship if I basically tell my step mum to back off and either be happy for me or stay away

Am I wrong?

And I haven't even got to telling my mum yet and all this has given me so much anxiety about telling her 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️