Am I wrong or making excuses?

So I had posted previously, some may remember this part of the story, my parents recently separated and my mom is looking for divorce. She just up and left and my dad has been taking it really rough. I’ve been on support duty for the past 2 weeks or so as there was issues with his mental health during this time. I am pregnant and have a 1 1/2 year old so I’ve been drained asf. I’ve been keeping up with house work as well but not as great as I’ve been previously. It’s just a difficult time for myself and family. The house is not a disaster, i clean up after my daughter all day, about every other day take out recycling, counters get cleaned, vacuuming, basic things. However, it’s not as clean as it can be and I’ve been slacking on putting laundry away. Well my husband has been like giving me shit for it? I’m typically on top of my house work but just with everything going on I feel so drained all the time, and that’s not to say I’m just sitting on my ass all day, i still do things. Anyway, he made a comment about cleaning tomorrow and i told him like I’m going through a tough time and he fails to consider that.. like he’s not concerned with any of this unless it affects him somehow. It seemed like he got upset I said that?