TWW Questions

I was looking at my calendar today and am hoping I did enough to conceive this month. I didn’t do the ovulation tests or temping this month because honestly I feel like lately that’s all I do and it was taking the passion out of trying, started feeling like a chore. I did note EWCM (I don’t have EWCM each month) on the 26th and 28th, we DB’d both these days…what are the chances this will be enough. Thoughts, experiences?

I’m expected to start between 12th-14th; last period was 11/12. I had sore breasts right after “fertile week”, and that has since gone way. Off and on nausea (flu going around; not in my house but locally) and today I had brief cramping (didn’t feel like PMS cramping but lower abdomen pressure).

When should I test?