I was going to ask that people not respond with negative rude things about my Husband but I know people will. Just know it’s not appreciated and isn’t helpful . Also I’m not going to take any comments that tell me to leave him because that isn’t helpful either . I’m mainly just curious if I’m overreacting .

Tonight I made soup for dinner and my husband was serving us . He asked me how much I wanted but I wasn’t really paying attention to how much he was scooping . I ended up asking for a little more . He had already got his bowl and when he put mine next to it he said there are times he gets more food for himself because ours look like the same amount . I replied with so what? And he said because I’m twice your size . I told him our bowls were not filled the same as he had more and he didn’t believe me . This isn’t the first time he’s said this and it really brothers me . I don’t know what to say to him or why he feels the need to comment on it or eat more then he really wants because of this . I’m not a small person and i probably could eat less at times and I know I need to work on my weight.

For as long as I can remember I’ve skipped breakfast , half the time lunch also, and I guess that would lead to a bigger dinner. Today I lost my appetite and didn’t finish breakfast Which was eggs and toast . I had a sandwich for lunch and then that bowl of soup for dinner. Often he’s the one who will go get a big bowl of cereal , 6 plus cookies, a sandwich or 2 right after dinner. I never say anything to him so why is he commenting on my food portions .

Update: we talked about it . He didn’t mean it how it came out and felt bad after he said it . He apologized for saying it and didn’t mean for me to feel badly about myself .