Hello,

I might be mean for someone for saying this but i’m in need for suggestions and how to coupe with these things.

I’m 15+2 today and since I’ve announced my pregnancy to others ( not family ) around 11 weeks.I’ve been getting all kind of “ you must do that not that “ suggestions and people telling me to wait until birth to buy everything, or to give my cat for adoption once the baby is born, and all kinds of stupid suggestions I don’t want to hear, what to give my baby to eat. I’m a picky eater and someone said “ yea better leave ur child with me to teach to eat everything not like you “ I find these very mean from anybody, even though some people aren’t saying this to be mean.And explaining their personal symptoms like every pregnancy is the same.Someone said “The nausea you had will ONLY get worse “ I told it’s getting better but they didn’t want to listen.Saying things that would scare me and Nobody listens to me. I’m tired to explain and defend and told them it’s my baby and I do what i want when i want.I barely got in second trimester and the pressure they put on me sometimes is exhausting.

Anyone got through this when we’re pregnant the first time?If yes, what were your responses to shut their mouth ?