i’m 35 weeks pregnant monday and i realized i’m going to be a single mother with a boyfriend. i have a toddler from a previous relationship so i didn’t see the newborn stage of that and i do 99% of the entertainment/ playing/ picking up after for. in a few weeks we will have a newborn and my bf sleeps in every morning gets mad if we wake him up. like wtf do you think is going to happen with a newborn????? i already see myself doing all the work with both of them and he can’t be trusted to watch a 2 year old i’m not going to trust him to watch a newborn. i was in the bathroom last night and he just falls asleep and my son is into everything. i feel like i don’t want to leave him till the boys are older because i don’t think he’d properly take care of them.

his excuse is he works hard and i don’t because i have an office job.