my mom went snooping on the person i like (facebook)

I’m 22, and currently just STARTING to talk to a 25 year old man. I made the mistake of telling my mom.

She snooped on him, going through insta to facebook, and found a singular instance he shared a meme about “if you can’t find the clit, perhaps the clit should find you” in a Socrates meme format.

She sat me down, intervention style, and told me she doesn’t approve. She said she can tell he’s “ a bad person” and even implied he’d r*pe me, all because of a singular meme.

I told her shes taking it way too far, and in return, she told me im an immature college kid that has “NO IDEA” how dangerous be is for making that joke. She’s never even met him yet, nor have I, but shes saying either i drop communication with him or i hold no respect for her as a mother.