Sorry long post

Hey y’all, I need a second opinion.

So I went on a trip with my besties for New Years because my s/o said he was fine with it and didn’t celebrate holidays ( we didn’t celebrate thanksgiving , Christmas, etc.) & I can tell he doesn’t like when I ask him to celebrate .. so I try not to.

I did ask if he wanted to come or do anything just us but he said no. But He ended up wanting me to stay the night before the trip and kind of gave me a ultimatum.

I still went because everything was paid for. Fast forward we are on FaceTime and he says he’s going to one of our places without me .. I replied with “ if you go without me we’re not going to be friends anymore, you don’t care about our friendship “ like just joking saying we wouldn’t be cool if he went w/o me. He took it as me downplaying our relationship in front of my friends. Even though that wasn’t my intention he’s on the verge of breaking up with me because he feels disrespected. I’ve apologized numerous times because I really promise I meant nothing by it. Everybody around me knows about him so I’m not sure why he would think that.