Sex or handjob

Brooke

Well my husband is having problems staying hard while having sex and never finished while having sex and he blames his medicine but I kinda find it hard to believe when we lay down and start getting to it and he only wants a handjob and can finish that way no problems but if and when we do have sex he puts it in and a few pumps later he is all the way soft and I've told him over and over I feel like it's something to do with me whether he wants to admit it or not I really do feel that that's the case cuz we're on the same medicine and I don't go do that issue.. so what do I do? Please