Soo my toddler just turned two in September and since turning around 15 months old she has changed soo much! Sje was such a good baby soo we all thought she would be growing up too but honestly her habits are really hard to control

I get judged sooo much by family members I’m getting really upset over it I know she’s only a child but I want to keep her happy

She’s always crying and smacking her head with toys

She throws stuff when she gets angry

She gets angry over EVERYTHING I can’t wash her face I can’t dress her she hates a lot of clothing items like socks she hates socks her feet get cold and I worry she hates wearing jackets and gloves it snowing outside! She won’t let her dummy out if sight she slaps me throws things at me she hates being in the car seat she screams and yells has tantrums EVERYWHERE! She doesn’t eat her food most of the time I have to stand or sit for 2-3 hours just distracting her soo she can eat

just want her to be happy all family members say I have spoilt her too much since she was a baby (she is my first and we conceived her after 4 long hard years)

I’m genuinely asking for some real advice from mums as I’m a first time mum

The only person who she listens to is her nursery teacher who believes in ‘discipline’ she’s really nice but she is very stern and lets the children ‘cry it out’

I have tried alot if things including ignoring her for example when she cries and hits me because her sleeve won’t roll up the way she likes 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

It’s just hard to take her to family houses too as I know she will be called ‘the bad naughty one’ ‘loud one’ ‘what’s wrong with her” list goes on

It just makes me angry when they pick on her I know her habits are really bad compared to the other kids in family but I’m her mother I hate people saying such stuff! Please share you’re experiences thanks