Am I wrong to be upset?

We had new neighbors move in, a dad the mom and their two kids. My husband was out there talking to the dad about cars and whatever and I went out there to go say hi. My husband introduced me and the dad barely acknowledged me and didn’t say anything to me and then continued talking to my husband. I thought it was rude but just went inside. Another day my two daughters (16 and 18) and I were outside talking to their daughters and the mom and they were super nice. Whenever my daughters are going on a walk or something they always smile and wave to the dad when he’s outside and he just ignores them and goes back to whatever he’s doing. Me and my daughters came to the conclusion he was probably a misogynist and just a douchebag. We all brought it up to my husband and he defended him and said “he’s just not that talkative”. That could be true although he’s out there talking to my husband and son for like an hour every day but as soon as any women come outside he ignores them and seems irritated. A few days ago my daughter realized she worked with their daughter and they started talking, she found out the daughter hates her dad and says he’s a douchebag and all this other stuff. My husband walked in while we were talking about this and he instantly got angry and said how good of a guy he is and once again started defending him. I got mad and told him “it’s obvious he has something against women, even his own kid has a problem with him. You are just choosing not to see it or listen to us because you want to continue talking to him every night like he is your life long best friend.” He said whatever and slammed the door and started talking to him again. If it makes him happy talking to him then go ahead I’m fine with it i just wish he would at least admit the guy acts like a jerk to me and our daughters.