Why is cheating so wrong for women?

This question is not ironic. Seeing these posts makes it so obvious that women are harsher on other women than with men. It's such a double standard.

I saw women shred a woman who cheated to pieces even though she was very remorseful and took accountability. They make their true colors show by wishing her all these terrible things, "I hope he cheats on you" is said in every comment, then they feel sorry for the guy even though he was awful to her.. Then I go into these women's profiles and they have posts of them basically saying they're being cheated on. What? I thought cheating was disgusting and you hope terrible, unthinkable thing to happen- but only if she's a woman of course. I guess it doesn't matter if it's your boyfriend or husband.. you forgive and make excuses for him..gotcha.

Where is the logic in that?

I saw a post of a woman who's being cheated on.. she of course forgave him because of course.. she then gets depressed and ends up talking to someone through texts, she feels guilty, comes and tells her story and women come for her throat. She gets told she should've just left him, but no.. she forgives him but hates the girl who he cheated with... it's like this loopy cycle where men end up winning and women are vicious toward other women.. I feel like these women hide their misogyny on the base of righteousness.

End of rant.

@molly, you said exactly what I think. I'm not talking about, logical, smart, articulate women who can compassionately reason with the poster. I'm talking about those nasty woman who for sure say "I don't feel sorry for you", "I hope you get cheated on". Woman who are harsh and tactless. Those women who sit on their mighty throne yet live absolute garbage fire lives.