He always says if I want to

What’s making me make this post was just today. But this is everytime with lots of different scenarios.

I want over my boyfriends last night and I have a funeral today from 3-7pm. I asked him if he wanted me to come back after and he wouldn’t say yes or no just if you want. I don’t really like that. Makes me feel like he doesn’t want me to if he can’t say yes. I wish he would just say yes or no instead of if I want to. Maybe it’s just me. But if someone constantly says if you want to instead yes I would like you to come back.