Commitment phobic partner

Have you dated someone who pushed you away? I’ve been dating someone for a year and when I recently asked what we were they ended things and want to just be friends.

I think theyre afraid of commitment and are pushing me away. Its really sad as we’ve been long distance for the last 3 months and things were going so well.

Im sad and hurt and worried because he’s totally isolating himself. Its hard to watch. I feel like its not just with his relationships, but with all he does and has done with his life :(

I think im realizing that its not me, but that its him and himself not having enough love for himself to commit to a single thing and living in constant indecision and hurting his potential girlfriend and friends and family by pushing people away constantly

He just chooses the hardest path for himself, constantly and as someone who cares for him, its hard to watch

Im just feeling real sad about it, its really sad!