Does it sound like he is using me ? 😕

Well the guy I’ve been almost 4 yrs with lately hasn’t worked and I’ve been struggling on all my bills. The other day he needed me to drive him to the bar, no he doesn’t drive… I sound stupid already huh?

Well I took him to the bar to watch the football game at 3 o’clock and told him I would meet him later on, he suggested I bring my seven month old with me to the restaurant which was very inconsiderate & and then suggested I bring all three of my kids which was even stupider. In all reality I just felt he just needed a ride home.

Long story short when I got there about 730 8 o’clock I ordered some food and tried to catch a vibe. But by the time 930 hit and it was almost 10pm & I was ready to go home considering he had already been there since 3 PM. Mind you I have been driving around already all weekend and I am pregnant.

I went n got gas and sat in the car till about 10 and told him I was ready to leave. He came outside and told me that the highlights were playing as if he thought it was a joke and that I didn’t have to get up at 6:45 in the morning.

I ended up leaving.

He texted me and told me he was coming to get his stuff and literally came to my house and got his stuff and left when I tried to tell him that I have kids and that I have been tired and explain myself he rudely walked away and I didn’t hear from him the rest of the night..

He attempted to gaslight me by saying that it was supposed to be a date but when I asked him that at the bar and I didn’t get that response…

The reality of it is he needed a ride home & was mad that I left but the crazy part is his family member was still able to drop him off, so what was your reason getting your stuff and leaving?

I honestly feel that because I wasn’t able to be his go to girl or fill his establishments he left…

I cried all night

He tried to come back the next day and apologize but that was after me seeing him walking down the street with a bunch of homeless people from the warehouse that he’s been “ so called “ hanging out at & I’ve had enough