I will never again tell a woman her bf is a cheater

I lost my good friend and am now being annoyed by another psycho and I will never again tell a woman when her man is a shady and sleezy scumbag.

Almost a month ago my friend's bf started reacting to my stuff more than usual. I didn't think much of it but took notice.

He then sent me a funny meme, then said sorry, he had sent it to the wrong person. I told my bf and we were both just 🤨.

On Saturday 14 he texted "Hey" and my bf said to just ask what's up, maybe we were being cynical.

I did, and he asked what I was doing and I said "At dinner, do you need something?"

He asked if he could tell me something and I said yes and he said he was attracted to me, he had liked me ever since he met me and had dreams about me and wished we had met when we were both single. I took screenshots and he sent me an audio that I couldn't decipher because he sounded very drunk.

I replied back, "You're obviously very drunk, and I think you're texting the wrong person." He said, he knew exactly who he was texting and finished by saying "OK, Karen Smith" (Let's just say that's my name).

He sent me another audio saying my name. I didn't reply and he didn't text, that was until the morning just apologizing, saying he had had too much to drink but to please not tell my friend. I blocked him. I pondered about telling her and my bf said it was up to me. I saw her at the gym and just couldn't do it, I was such a chicken and didn't have the courage.

Last Friday I get approached by this guy at the gym and he asks for my number. My friend sees this interaction, asks me what happened and when I tell her, she's shocked because he has a girlfriend who also goes to our gym. She tells me I have to tell her and I tell her I don't even know these people so I'm not getting involved.

Saturday she walks with the girl towards me and tells me to confirm to her that this guys is asking girls for their number. I say it was a quick interaction but yes, he in fact asked me out.

When the girl leaves I'm like WTF and she tells me girlfriends deserve to know. I take a deep breath and tell her about the texts, she looks at me crazy and I show her the evidence. She starts crying, apologizes to me and thanks me. She gives me a big hug and tells me thanks again.

The girl started following me on Instagram and requested me on Facebook. I got curious and started seeing her stuff and she's posting these things.

I think everything's fine with my friend until I get a text from her last night asking "Is it true that you've been flirting with &&&?" I'm like "Excuse me?" She tells me to answer the question and I say NO!!!

She then calls and tells me occasions where she thinks I've flirted and scumbag agrees with her. She tells me she won't let me get in her relationship and won't talk to me unless I genuinely apologize to them. At this point I'm fuming from my ears, that's disgusting, her boyfriend is a dirty pig and I never even look his way.

Now I'm at the gym and her and the other girl are all buddy buddy and giving me dirty glances.

I will never again tell a woman that her boyfriend is a scumbag.