Well, the reason why coz I’m too over protective my babies. I don’t let my baby drink water before 6 months, I don’t let them use bouncer chair coz the grandparents shake too hard when the babies cry too much (it might cause shaking syndrome, over even coz of their unstable neck, the flip side head can obstruct their breathing). I don’t let my babies just anyhow use any traditional medicine without proper Dr description.

Now my first baby is 2 years old and my second baby is 5 months plus. I don’t let my toddler eat too much snacks coz nt good for health, but my in law keep on feeding her even I said no. My in law like to let my toddler share foods by feed her with the spoon they eat (that is how RSV spread). They even mock me for don’t allow my toddler have soft drink and coffee (they said I might cause my toddler have allergic in the future coz restrict her try all foods). I don’t let my babies go out without my presence. Even relatives in my husband side teach me how to parenting my child and baby. I know that I’m too strict that why I take care both of them on my own but they also don’t let me have peace. Since I become a Mom, my in law don’t like me