The worst mistake I made was listening to the people that said “his kind heart is what matters and not sex”.. I listened to them and now I’m in a marriage where we are not even sexually compatible. His thing isn’t doing nothing to me! Like I have to think about my ex to actually remotely enjoy having sex with him. Size don’t matter? Lies! Now I am 8 years and 3 kids in. Yes he is kind, yes he provides for us. Yes I am considered ‘fortunate’ because he has money so now we have money. But is it worth the displeasure? Sex toys isn’t even an option because he said that he does not want any toys in our marriage. Sigh