Daddy kink? Advice?
My husband and I have mentioned before how cringey the daddy kink is (not judging those who do it, just for us, we couldn't get past the father/daughter thought with the word daddy).
Anyways. I think I might be into it? I've been reading a lot of smutty books lately and I love when she'll call him daddy in the bedroom. I want to try it, but I don't know how to go about initiating it. There's been times in the bedroom where I felt the urge to say it and it almost just came out, but held it in because I don't want to ruin the moment for him if he's not into it.
I'm so awkward when it comes to dirty talk or talking to him about my wants like this. Like I said, he's talked about it before how he thinks it's weird/gross for someone to call their husband "daddy", so I feel like I already know the answer and it would be pointless to bring it up and just make things a little weird.
Also, I do have actual daddy issues, so that makes me feel even more weird about it. Like, I'm not wanting that father/daughter aspect of using the word daddy. Just the dominant side of it, if that makes sense?
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My man has never been into being called “daddy” and I never had been either until we got together and I said it one time in the heat of the moment and now we both love it. I’d talk to him or just try it one time and see how he reacts and if he doesn’t like it then talk about it and don’t do it again I guess and find something else you both connect with and think is sexy to call him. I call my hubby a bunch of different things in the moment and it’s always been fine, I’m terrible at dirty talk too so I feel your embarrassment and pain with it😅
My husband and I always joked ablut the daddy kink and id laugh saying I'm just going to come out with it at some point. I'd also been reading a lot of smut and started thinking about it. I eventually just called him daddy in the middle of sex once and turns out he was more into than he thought. You can either just blurt it out like I did and see how things go, or sit and have a conversation with him beforehand and say that you'd like to try it in the bedroom at some point and see how you both feel about it.
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