My kiddos are 4 and 2 and I just found out I'm pregnant. I don't know if I want to do a 3rd baby. We were careful and a few weeks away from my husbands vasectomy. What is the transition like? I'm concerned my kids won't get the attention they deserve, we'd be outnumbered, our 5 year plan probably goes out the window (including me getting my degree), we're military and he deploys before the baby turns one. I'm so anxious. I need advice.