So my husband has been yelling at me about how I never do anything and he's the reason why we have anything nice. A little back story, when we first got together I worked full time, still do, and he didn't work at all. I got us both of the cars we've had and got us into the apartments we've lived in. He never worked until we moved into our current apartment. I've paid for our car up until recently, he's been helping out. I always paid rent until our current apartment where we both pay half of rent. This whole argument started because we've recently fallen on hard times since he was fired from his last job. He left early without reason too many times so he was let go. He just started a new job yesterday and it's a good paying job and we should be able to get back on our feet, but we did contact a rental assistance program to see if they can help us pay what we owe. He asked me to call them while he was at work and I was told that our application is still under review so they couldn't tell me anything yet. We also have a cat that we're trying to get rid of because he's getting aggressive towards our 9 month old. I havent been able to find anyone but his aunt called him and said she will take him. Now I guess I don't do anything and all I do is get in his way. I'm lazy and he can't be with someone who's lazy and refuses to do anything for their husband. I told him that I'm sorry I couldn't find anyone to take the cat, but I contacted multiple people I knew, I made posts on Facebook, I even contacted shelters in the area, but they didn't have any room. He's even been treating our 3 year old like shit. He screamed at her for accidentally pooping on the back of her dress when she went to use the potty. Told her she's lazy and looked at our 9 month old and said don't grow up to be like your sister. It's gotten to the point where our 3 year old doesn't want to be around him and she even said she doesnt love him today and I really don't blame her. My father treated me the same way so I know how she's feeling. I think that was the last straw for me and I want a divorce. It's one thing to treat me like shit, but I won't tolerate that kind of treatment towards my kids. Sorry that was a lot. I typed all this while balling my eyes out