Omg. I just overcame vaginismus with my new boyfriend!

Long story short…. Sex always really hurt for me. Past partners always told me to “just relax”, “stop pushing me out”, etc. i got checked medically and was told it was vaginismus- where your body gets so tense during sex and involuntarily doesnt allow intercourse. Its VERYYY hard to relax and allot for a man to enter me because my body always tried to push him out and the man never enjoys it so i always felt weird.

Its the reason my ex broke up with me, instead of going with me to my pelvic therapy appointments to help me overcome it (its almost always fixable!), he left me. My PT always told me “one day you will meet a man who will be so patient with you during sex and it will feel amazing”

Fast forward years later to now, I met my now amazing bf. We waited to have sex for awhile until im comfortable and he made it very clear that he will help me through sex and really be patient.

We had sex for the first time today and OH MY GOD, it wad BREATHTAKING.

He was so gentle. So patient. Took it at my pace. It didnt hurt at ALLL for ONCE! It felt SO GOOD.

He even said to me after “that was actually the best sex Ive ever had!”

Oddly enough, my body was locking him IN LOL, instead of involuntarily pushing him out. He loved it of course but it amazed me how with the right comfort, safety, love and the right man…. My body just actually WANTED him! Our love for eachother is so strong so im not sure if that played a part here.

He is still talking about how amazing it was, how proud he is of me, and how we just felt real magic.

It was beautiful.

I just wanted to share this because I felt magic today❤️