How to know if I’ve being loved bombed? What should i look for?

Question

I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month. We’ve been on 3 dates. He’s very consistent always wants to talk, txt, FaceTime and things like that. But I start over honking and vent too the difference  between someone genuine liking me or love bombing

Answer

Love bombing follows bad behavior. It is deeper than getting your partner flowers after a fight. If he does atrocious things, speaks down to you etc and makes up for it by spurts of kindnesses, gift giving, flattery, and then goes back to being atrocious after, it’s love bombing. Love bombing has everything to do w the giver and nothing to do w the feelings of the recipient

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Someone who love bombs isn’t consistent. Try to take kindness as kindness until you start seeing red flags to tell you otherwise… then listen to them. If your won’t red flag is his consistent kindness and interest, you’re doing good. I felt like that about my fiancé when we first started dating, but that was because I had just come out of an abusive 16 year marriage. All of the love bombing my ex did, I know when it happens, I just either excused or intentionally ignored the red flags.

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I think you'll know because there will be certain red flags. For me it was irrational jealousy very early on. Being overly dominant and establishing control very early on in the way of questioning things that you do. Almost as though they don't trust you already so that you can seek to gain their trust. Which you will do constantly if you stay. Rushing the relationship as well. I didn't notice these things because I grew up with a dominating male figure. So none of it raised flags for me at the time until he put his hands on me and even then I forgave quickly and stayed for years smh. They can only pretend to be normal for so long luckily. Things usually progress quickly.

How to know if I’ve being loved bombed? What should i look for?

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