I think you have to accept the reality of now and find peace in it, and just understand that what is for you won’t pass you and what isn’t for you you can’t keep no matter how hard you try. Let it go, live your life, be healthy, don’t try to get over it in the sense that you are forcing yourself to feel differently. Sit with how you feel and learn to be at peace and still find joy. If it is meant to be it’ll work it’s way back

I hesitate to share this because it’s definitely not everyone’s story but it may give you some insight. My boyfriend and I first met in 2014, dated until 2015 when we broke up because he said he “wasn’t ready for commitment”. I was beyond devastated. I knew with everything in me we were supposed to be together and I didn’t understand how he couldn’t see that. Two years passed and during this time I became the best version of myself; lost 30 lbs, opened up my own business, dated around etc etc and he moved to a different state and had a child. He decided at some point that he wanted to settle down and he wanted that person to be me. So he contacted me and we dated and when we were both ready, we committed. We’ve been together for 5 years now. My advice: become the best version of yourself. Throw yourself into whatever relieves your stress. For me it was Baptiste yoga 5-6 days a week but maybe it’s MMA or weightlifting for you. Study what you want to become an expert in, deep dive into your past to unveil anything limiting you and figure out what will make you happiest. If you end up getting back together, you’ll be a different person and you won’t make the same mistakes. And if you find someone new, the same will be true. You’ll be so happy you took the time to invest in yourself. I remember the pain you’re going through and I am so sorry you’re suffering. The only way out is through. You got this ❤️

This relationship is over. You need to accept that and move on. There’s happiness out there and it isn’t this relationship.

You have to love yourself more than you love him. Because if you loved yourself more you would understand that it’s over and he will never give you what you want. So in order to be happy you have to let it go and move on. You are in control. You can’t let it go because you don’t want to, because you can’t accept there’s nothing left. So if you ever want to be happy again you need to love yourself more and move on or you will feel like this forever as he continues to move on with his life.

He will be back honey true love never die ok that doesn’t matter let him enjoy his life and you do the same that will make him love you even more because you being understanding of the situation even tho it hurts just have to just bare it and be strong trust me you gone look back on this and y’all gonna be married or you maybe even find another true love ❤️ god bless

Give it some time mama…

I know exactly how you feel, I was alone for 6 years after my first relationship broke down, we have 2 kids together. I didn't think we would get back together but I needed that time to focus on my kids and myself. It's hard, but just focus on your own wellbeing

#1 How long has it been sinceyou broke up? #2 if the answer is at least a year then #3 GET OVER IT HE OVI DOSNT WANT YOU

Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach… look it up.