Giving birth

I’m absolutely terrified to give birth I give birth in 3 months and am so scared, I was at a obgyn appointment and was told I wouldn’t probably be able to get an epidural since my scoliosis curve is at 20 degrees, then I had to get a Pap smear and it hurt I have no pain tolerance. She’s like u better get the epidural before u leave ur house to give birth and was telling me how it’s the worst thing ever:/ I’m so scared