I feel like I’m living in a movie, I fell head over heels in love with a guy 6 months ago. I noticed little things here and there were off with him, but I let it go or sat with it.

Little things like never allowing himself to seem like he doesn’t know something/never being wrong about small things/always needing to guess the end of my sentences then trying to rationalize his “answer” if he didn’t guess correctly.

There’s also the fact that he honestly just grew up in a better home environment than me. I had to learn a lot by myself fast to survive… his sister did his taxes this year. I can’t even wrap my head around how sheltered he is/was compared to how I’ve been experiencing life.

So a lot of little things started to add up, on top of him rushing to move in with me before I was ready… we broke up last night. We lived together about three months, his routine was sleep, shower, work, games, repeat. Nothing outside that unless I very specifically asked him to do it, like take out the trash. He deemed things like the dishes as my job the day he moved in.

On top of that I’ve recently been diagnosed adhd and was attempting medication trials but I guess that’s been put on hold.

Now you may be wondering, we’re we safe? Technically 100% when accounting for my birth control pills and using condoms 95% of the time. Never missed a pill, never even late to take it.

I have no idea how or when to tell him and since I literally found out a few ours ago I don’t even know when this happened exactly. I last bled for only 2/3 days on March 11-13. Sooo was I pregnant then or is this new. I have no idea.

Any tips on how to tell a 21 year old man he’s going to be a father for the first time the day after I broke up with him?