Broke up because of this

I just wanna know if I am logical or not …. My ex lives 45 mins away from me and I live in the main city he lives outside … he made effort to come into the City and see me when he thought he was loosing me.

When he got comfortable he stopped coming and expected me to drive out every week. It was getting tiring I am 8 years younger and felt like I was doing so much more.

When I told him about the problem he completely gaslight me and never even said he would change or make effort - totally gaslighting don’t even wanna go into details!

I asked at least one a month effort of driving out to see me …. Or a restaurant date

Every week it’s what he wanted.

Mind you I am 24 and he is 32.