So Saturday I was out at dinner with my close friend (female) and my ex text me about our meet (for our daughter) that was supposed to be happening on Sunday. I replied back and told him we had to meet a little later because i was going through church and I had to pick up my other kids. He replied “so you don’t have the kids” before I could even reply he started calling my phone. I texted him and let him know I was out and that I would call him when I got home.

So that triggered him (he is really controlling and just a toxic person). Started blowing my phone up, calling back to back, texting crazy stuff saying I’m a liar, I’m messing with the wrong one ect. I asked him to stop but nope! Lol so fast forward to the end of the night, I text him and told him he cross my boundaries and that I did not want to talk to him. I did also send him proof that I wasn’t with a man even though I didn’t have to. Sunday the morning the craziness continued. Although I told him I was going to be in church he started calling my phone, I texted him and told him I was in church… he continued to call and text saying I’m a liar and asking what time and what church I went too 🤦🏾‍♀️. At this point I was over him and told him that if he wanted to see his daughter he had to pick her up (I was letting him visit her and my house).

He basically said yea whatever, he showed up at my home took my daughter out the backseat and refused and to leave. So we were outside, it started raining and he had my baby. I told him to either give her to me or to take her with him but he wasn’t going in my home. He threw around some threats, and walked right into my home with our daughter. He even said to me if I embarrass him he could put my daughter in the house and we could do “what we had to do”. When he finally left I told him would call the police if he came back to my home and that I was getting a custody arrangement in place. Like am I doing too much ? I feel like this escalated too quick…

Background: h was verbally abusive, when I broke up with him he destroyed my home (he broke things when we were together too). He continued with the crazy behavior so I filed a temporary restraining order, I didn’t do the full order because I felt bad🤦🏾‍♀️. For a month he was acting normal, then this happened.