How did you know it was time to tie tubes?

Question

Help.

What helped you decide? What should I consider? I’m not 100% and I don’t want to feel pressured. I always envisioned a large family… I never had to think about tying my tubes, as I was always considered infertile. after 3

<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> babies I’m finally about to deliver my first naturally conceived baby (baby#4) and I feel blessed but also now feel the pressure from everyone to tie my tubes.

What are your thoughts? What helped you decide? How did you know?

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Don’t get your tubes tied have him get a vasectomy! Lol those are cheaper, easier to reverse if need be, and an in and out procedure! Lol I’m right there with you girl! I always only wanted 3 kids but we just found out our third is a third girl so I am struggling with the feeling of incompleteness. My husband said he is 100% done but we decided we will have that conversation after baby is born again and see what we are feeling then.

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I know so many woman who tied their tubes and regret it so much I just talked my friend out of this if you are not 110% sure you don’t want anymore kids EVER then do it but if you are going back and forth debating I would not 🙏🏼

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Personally I only want two children. I just had my son 5 weeks ago and within the next 2 years I want to have another, hoping I’ll have a lil girl💕💕 but I’m deff done after that. I had a traumatic birth experience so the thought of it happening again is horrifying. The only thing Ik would be diff the second time is that I have no choice but have a c section and I’ll absolutely request to be put out.

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So i didn't get my tubes tied, my husband got a vasectomy instead. We thought we were done after 3 kids. Literally got rid of all the baby stuff. When it came down to sterilization we decided we weren't ready to be done & we started ttc our 4th. Hes 2.5 now & no regrets! He completes our family ♡ we are finally definitely done. Dont do it if you arent 10000% sure & dont let other people influence your decision.

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It is something you need to be 100% on in my opinion. My husband and I always agreed on two, but when I was pregnant with my second it just didn't feel like the end for us. We have been trying for our third, and if we do finally conceive I will most likely feel ready to be done.

How did you know it was time to tie tubes?

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