Hey ladies,

I have been with my other half for over 9 years two children most recent is 8 months i have almost lost my baby weight i was big im almost nearly back to 10-12 from 14-26, so our sex was amazing before and went down hill and has been picking up, then my confidence took a knock on affect as my body just looked awful, we spoke about it and we wpuld do random things to make sex exciting, i would randomly walk in with a bra or top in and serve his dinner or drink etc. So i brought a gorgeous sexy outfit that is low cut and zip up frobt and goes around your neck. I surprised him with it. He looked at me and aaid youve lost your clothes. So i carried on laid on the floor looking at sexy photos, sent them him yo entice him went over to get his attention kissed him, hes literally paid attention to his game on his phone and finding ideas for the bathroom, so i thought do you know what, your not enjoying me and my body thanks for making me feel like shit. Have a crappy blow. Got changed. He asked if i would look after him. I said no and went sleep. I laid there and i felt so low and ny confidence and feeling sexy and the fact i fit into that outfit. After it being to small for me made me feel great and then i thought what was the point. Yet he moans and get assy at me for not making an effort and when i say about my feelings and why should i when i try and he doesnt show that hes interested or that what ive done is sexy or he cant keep his hands off me, makes me feel shit why would i then it he feel unwanted. Well so do i. How would you feel and should i try more or am i wrong