My mom posted a video of my husband having sex with someone else on Facebook
My mom has never liked my husband because he came from a checkered past. He has a part of drug use which she did know about and a past in porn which she didn't know about until recently. My husband was a full blown prostitute at one point but honestly. The person he was between 17 and 26 and who he is now at 35 shows people can truly come out on the other end. My husband used to be recovery support person. He had a job at the local rehab near us. But he quit last august to stay home with our newborn and our 6 year old. He pretty much is a stay at home dad but also home schools our six year old and I'm an attorney. My mother like I said doesn't like my husband all that much. Several weeks ago she posted ON FACEBOOK "Ummm Darla? Did you have any idea about this?!" And it's a video of old PORN my husband used to do. I lost it on her over the phone and she said she thought I should know. I said I already knew and if she thought I should know why tf post it in Facebook. Send it to me privately. My mom was angry I knew and said "So drug addict wasn't enough. You had to have a child with a porn star?" And started asking what I'm gonna do when our children are old enough to find it. I said we've already discussed that as a married couple and it's NONE OF HER BUSINESS! But her posted it on her own Facebook upped the chance of them seeing it. We fought so much and my mom isn't talking to me now because I got her Facebook deactivated because she kept posting my husband's old porn and thirst trap photos from an Instagram he doesn't use anymore and videos he posted on that Instagram of him snorting drugs saying "I really lucked out with a son in law." My mom said he shouldn't have put it out there if he didn't want people seeing it. That's true but honestly would why of you want videos of your son in law fucking someone in your Facebook? But I kept reporting it and Facebook deactivated her account. I found out from my sister that my mom had also made a private Facebook group dedicated to posting some of my husband's old porn and thirst trap photos and old pictures or videos of him doing drugs. I've officially cut my mom off today because no one will disrespect my husband and it's creepy! Why are you going on a hunt for your DAUGHTERS HUSBAND'S PORN AND THIRST TRAPS?!
@Avery it's not considered revenge porn. At least not in our state because it's porn he did and put out there.
@Stella I'm not sure why it matters that the Instagram is still up. My husband completely forgot about it because he hasn't used it in years. He quit using it even when he was still doing porn because he didn't want to be on social media anymore. He didn't get back on social media until 2 years into our relationship. My mom is being horrible. I'm not even gonna take this as caring about me. That Instagram just had thirst trap photos and drugs use. My mom had to go online and SEARCH under my husband's stage name which I don't know how she found out to find his porn. She had to keep searching for my husband's porn. She doesn't care about me to do something like that. Also yes my husband's past IS something to he proud of. I'm extremely proud of his past. He was a foster child. He had no family besides me and the kids. He went to child prostitute, to drug addict, to adult prostitute/porn star. And now he's 9 years sober and a dad and husband. Yes I'm proud of him and his past.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.