Idk how to tell this guy he might be my sons dad

So I got pregnant in july 2022 summer I was having a little to much fun smh I now know to be safe I was being DUMB

Recently I’ve been seeing my sons features a little more coming in and I see I’ll call him jerry I have him on my social medias he recently added me again and I just want to tell him like hey this might be your son but y’all he has a whole baby mom and 2 kids I didn’t know of this at all 🙁 so don’t call me a bad person I don’t want to f up what they have you know what should I do should I tell him he could possibly be the father of my son ? Because he’s been texting me I just haven’t had the guts to say anything …

My son has the sickle cell trait one of the guys I thought was the father I asked he said he didn’t have that trait soooo I marked him out it’s between him and jerry but if he doesn’t have the sickle cell trait that must mean he’s not . Jerry tho I want to ask him that randomly and see what he says or is that stupid ugh you guys I don’t know what to do