Did I over react?

My husband and I have been married for 18 years

We have a 12 year old daughter who has seizures

Well the other night she had one and collapsed on the floor and blacked out

She has NEVER collapsed and blacked out so I was freaked out and panicked

Anyways she was taken via ambulance to the local hospital

Local hospital was thinking it’s best she be taken to children’s hospital which is 2 hours away

Why? Because our daughter has a very rare progressive disease called MELAS and they felt it was better for her to be seen there by her providers

The 2nd my husband heard this he kept saying in front of our daughter and me

I don’t wanna go there I have to work in the morning

Fuck this shit god damn it

Can’t we go tomorrow?

This is bullshit I have to work we shouldn’t of came here at all

I’m gonna ask if we can just take her tomorrow cos I got a long day tomorrow I can’t do this right now I can’t call off I have HAVE to get my 40 hours in at work

Just over and over and over and over

My daughter said yeah dad I don’t wanna go either

He just wouldn’t stop so I got fed up and I said ok fine then we won’t go, why don’t we just leave now so they won’t take her down…….

He sat there looking at me dumb founded

So I said: Well??? why are you sitting there??? Let’s go 🤷‍♀️

He sat there stunned

I said if she needs to go she needs to go if she’s going I’ll go down my damn self you don’t gotta go

He got soooo mad and he said whooooa why do you get this way for? 🤨 it’s REALLY weird you know that right? People don’t act like this and you get this way for some reason. Who said I didn’t wanna go WHO? Wow you’re WAY over reacting it’s comical

I said I’m not you’re just gas lighting me at this point you’re sitting here saying you don’t wanna go you gotta work this seems to me a family emergency you can call in and call off but whatever it’s fine

Anyways I ended up riding down with her to the hospital and he ended up staying home and working.

Did I over react in this situation with him?