I’m a jerk….

I know it’s the thought that really counts. I’ve been really wanting this custom necklace. It’s 50 bucks…. We’ll instead my husband had some other necklace made that was way to gody for me. He was trying to be creative but I honestly hate it. I feel like he’s always trying to go above and beyond but it never is what I want and it honestly kinda hurts my feelings that he doesn’t know that it would be something I don’t like. How do you handle a partner that seems to always miss the mark with gifts? To I just continue to smile and pretend because being honest made me feel like a jerk but I’m stil soooo sad that he never has gotten me a gift that has truly been something I wanted or likes. All feels like a waste of money.

I’ve tried to kindly tell him before it’s not my style but feels like a jerk move after the money and effort put into gifts.