So I’ve been talking to this guy for months. We been on plenty dates and everything is going fine; well at least I thought. The chemistry is amazing he makes me laugh I make him laugh we enjoy each others company etc.

Since I met him we’ve been in contact so one day I noticed no call or message so I checked up on him to see if all was well. He said he wasn’t well. I took his word for it and allowed him to be with himself a bit because he didn’t seem to be in a talking mood. As the days go by I sensed AND realized he is growing distant, more that just him “not feeling well” I gave him a few days to himself because I say to myself if I’m overthinking it and something is wrong I’ll allow him to share it with me in his own timing. So I noticed two three days pass no communication till I started to feel like he’s ghosting me.Being the communicator I am I messaged him asking why does he seem withdrawn he said he found that he was getting attached to me too quick.

First time I’ve heard a guy say such so my question is, what do I make of such words because since he stated that I myself didn’t bother myself to ask for elaboration, clarification none of that. I don’t want nobody to have to tell me they don’t want me twice. Because I’m thinking if he wanted something with me a grown man would communicate , let me know what’s the real deal and we adjust or talk it through accordingly.

What do you ladies think?