I thought I wasnt able to have sex.

For all of my adult life, I struggled with having sex and discovered I had vaginismus. This is the term for when your body involuntarily rejects insertion of any kind (tampon, penis etc).

My ex husband took my virginity and it was an awful experience. After that, I feared sex and realized my body did too. He could barely go in, or sometimes couldnt at all. I couldnt do any positions. He belittled me for it, put me down

I was assessed by a profesisional who literally said “honey, theres nothing wrong with you. You are just not feeling safe and comfortable with the person you are having sex with”.

This was so true.

We ended up breaking up, and I had other relationships with the same problem. Looking back, I never felt emotionally or mentally connected to these men and my body just kept rejecting them.

Fast forward to now. I met my now partner. It was the most natural relationship ever and we created a very deep connection.

Well we finally had sex and it was AMAZING! EASY! He was extremely gentle with me and it was all about my comfort. I even was able to do alllll the positions!

This just goes to show how important the partner that you choose really is. ❤️