Abortion or??

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I recently found out I’m 4 weeks pregnant .. this will be my second child I’m 26 year old . I still don’t have it “ all” together yet. Im a single mom who works & barely have help with my 1st child which is 2. Im living at home right now with my mom because rent here is beyond crazy . But I do have plans to move out . The guy im with is now acting like an asshole . But that’s not the reason why im thinking of abortion. I just don’t want to bring another baby in the world and im struggling already 🥺 .. I haven’t even told my mom yet. I was just going to get the abortion like nothing ever happened. Please help me .. what should I do.

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Please consider adoption. I hear all of these terrible stories of moms getting abortions and never forgiving themselves and feeling so guilty. So many family’s would absolutely love the baby and give them a great life.. the babies life does not have to end just because you don’t think you could give them the life they deserve, they don’t deserve to die, please. God bless you🤍

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It’s your decision girl… personally I would look into adoption. I know people complain all the time about the foster system but coming from somebody who’s mom works in it and I have a friend that has been waiting on a baby for three years I can say in most cases the problem with the system has to do with them wanting to reunite the kids with the original family and nothing to do with to many kids. There are so many families waiting on babies… it’s sad. But in the end you need to make the decision best for you.

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No one can tell you what to do love. That’s a decision you need to make on your own. You should weigh out the pros and cons.

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It is your decision. But I would say to consider adoption. There are plenty of women out there who can’t have babies. Go through an agency, have a closed adoption. Help another woman out there.

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Please do not abort and talk to your mom and the baby’s father about it. That is your mother’s grandchild and may be more supportive than you think. Praying for you…

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I had an abortion at 22 years old due to being so young, no real job and the dad was abusive - fast forward now 13 years in in a loving marriage with some else, with 1 child and another on the way and we both have stable jobs and a home. I do not regret one bit having the abortion as it was the right thing 100% for me at the time. Do what is right for you, not anyone else x

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Years ago i chose to abort a pregnancy I had with a POS loser. Though i had moments of doubt and regret after I now feel 100% i did the right thing. That child would've had a miserable existence having that man as a father. I believe too many people end up having kids with the wrong person because they couldn't keep their legs closed and aren't strong enough to make the right decision.  ♡

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You should do whatever feels right to you. At the end of the day, you know yourself better than any of us do.

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No one can tell you what to do, but whatever decision you make is okay. I probably would have considered abortion at your age and in your situation, but now that I’m older, in a loving marriage, and suffered with infertility issues for years I am so grateful to the incredible women who choose adoption instead of abortion. It’s truly the most beautiful thing in the world and your decision could mean everything for some other woman who is struggling physically and emotionally. You can also change your mind at any time and keep the baby for yourself if you end up falling in love with him/her. 
Again, follow your heart and just know that whatever decision you make is okay. Big hugs!

Abortion or??

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