When does the spark come back?

Question

My husband (30) and I (29) have been together for 9 years. We’ve always had the spark there but now that we our first baby (2 months old) it’s kinda went away. I’ve been trying and so has he but when does it come back?

Answer

Marriage ebbs and flows. 2mo pp is still very early and hormones are wild. It will get better!

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For us, once baby was sleeping through the night so we were well rested and had some time to ourselves in the evening

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Give it time. Baby is 2 months old. My husband and I have an agreement that our kid have to be at least 3 years before we would discuss divorce because it goes up and down so much in the first years and it takes so much time and effort to find a balance between children and relationship and work and family and what not 😅

Answer

I had zero interest in sex with my husband for a year after our first was born. I just was not feeling it. I still loved him and wanted to be with him. After our second it was only a couple of months.

When does the spark come back?

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